When it comes to the matters of the heart, it’s important to realize that we are not attracted to the people we’re interested in just because of their looks, educational level, financial stability and other socio-economic parameters. A lot of other subtle and salient factors not only come in to play but also work in synergy to create that special bond that transforms acquaintances into lovers. And It’s for this reason, I bring you these unparalleled and foolproof dating tips that will positively transform your dating experience.
1. Time
Nothing in this world is in existence without time. You got to meet your date at a specific time, you built chemistry and nurtured emotions with time, and you’re definitely going to sustain the relationship as time goes by. Yet you shouldn’t devote all your time to the people you’re interested in even though it feels like the natural thing to do. Because, the people who are interested in us, don’t care about us devoid of the other areas of our life. They’re into us because we have a life. So it’s important to devote more time to ourselves, family, friends and career. Because when we improve our lives, it definitely makes us a lot more attractive.
2. Patience
It’s all cute and nice when you’re always in their face till they gradually withdraw from you owing to your smothering affection. Hence, you need to realize that a temporary lack of texting or hanging out, doesn’t mean they are no longer interested. You should consider the fact that they could be busy or are just having one of those days where they don’t want to be on their phones. So practice patience, refrain from being needy and give your significant other time to miss you as this reflects maturity and emotional independence.
3. Be Original
Dating apps have revolutionized the dating world and as a result, even the most introverted person has numerous potential dates lined up in their inbox and social media apps. So there’s the need to set oneself apart and stand out from others. You should avoid routine “hi” and “good morning” texts as you can only imagine the amount they are receiving from others, especially if you met them through online dating. So spice things up, go beyond cliche dating ideas, reference inside jokes, and put your sense of humor to work. You should shape the chemistry early on and prevent it from dying off.
4. Make a Plan
In our modern world, there’s a good chance you built a significant part of the chemistry and connections online, even though you met him/her in person. This is why it comes as no surprise that many of our interactions with new people struggle to leap from the online phase to the offline phase. And the only way you can conquer this problem is to make plans and focus on having fun as adults. Because, when you venture into the realm of the real world, change chats to phone calls and video calls to actual dates, you seem more real and would also be taken more seriously.
5. Positive Mindset
Just because you’ve had failed relationships or experienced harsh rejections doesn’t mean you should lose hope or go through what I call “dating fatigue”. It’s important that you see yourself as the prize and maintain a positive outlook because meeting the right person is solely dependent on your mindset. Remember, you can’t invest negative emotions and expect positive outcomes.