As we step into 2024, it’s time to ditch the conventional New Year’s resolutions that often fade by February. Instead, let’s embrace a refreshing and practical approach: Clean Up Your Own Mess. This whimsical yet profound mantra isn’t just about tidying our living spaces. It’s a holistic movement towards decluttering and organizing our lives, both …
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In a world dominated by digital solutions to all of life’s issues, there are bound to be moments when we feel like connections become impersonal. Think about swiping during online dating to find “the perfect match.” You get me. It’s obvious then that we (or some of us) would take advantage of these impersonal connections …
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Before The Knee-Jerk Reaction First, I’d like to make something very clear – I’m not against the Christian church and/or good morals. If anything, I’m a huge proponent of anyone that teaches integrity, authenticity, inclusivity, freedom of thought, etc. The below content actually hits the nail on the head on ANY type of religion or …
“Please Be Christian”: One of the Biggest Dating App Fallacies Read More »
“NEW YEAR NEW ME”…IS LAME I’m sure you’ve all heard the overused cliché of “new year…new you, ” especially on our motivated meme-filled screens. We should start taking this white-noise of a phrase and turn it on its head. It should instead be “You+” meaning you’re an extension of who you were or daresay an …
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“Champions are Made in the Field” Jennifer Lopez, the Lord of the Rings, has done it again and I’m sure you all know what I’m alluding to. Just like the Spurs, she holds five rings and most definitely has made the playoffs multiple times in the world of dating and relationships. Here’s the thing – …
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BREAKUP RECOVERY Breakup recovery is so needed especially when moving on from the cluster that was 2020. When you hear the word “toxic”, what’s the first thing that pops into your mind? An object? A person? Or perhaps Poison Ivy? I really should slow down on quick comic books references, you know? If you’re new to …
Before the Storm *I completely understand the distinction between the correct use of Americas and the United States in modern lexicon. However, for poetic license, will be using “America” or “American” in the context of the United States. Today is November 2, 2020, the day before what could possibly become a category 5 human storm. …
Never before have we communicated so often online. Life has become a constant switch between screens as we move about our days in quarantine. Our inboxes are as full as our schedules, and our existences rely on staying in touch both professionally and personally. In the current circumstances, singles are relying even more on digital …
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The Initial Journey After the initial infatuation subsides, normalized behavior may lead to feelings of feeling “stuffed”. This is when attachment issues in dating arise. The self-sabotaging also involves assuming the other partner will not accept them at their lowest energy or that they will soon grow tired of them. This is where it’s important …
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A detox is defined as the process to rid the body of unhealthy substances, digital detox is making us socially out of shape. This applies to dating as the tribal and community mindset of dating and relationships is on the decline. I would estimate that online dating completely lost its social stigma in 2012 with …
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Boredom Killing Me… It all starts with inspired creativity and the excitement of novelty, and minutes later we are off to the races swiping. Attractive, witty, funny, “too much”, and commonalities capture our eyes as we quickly swipe left and right. To an outsider looking in, we appear as mindless drones moving our fingers on …
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