As we step into 2024, it’s time to ditch the conventional New Year’s resolutions that often fade by February. Instead, let’s embrace a refreshing and practical approach: Clean Up Your Own Mess. This whimsical yet profound mantra isn’t just about tidying our living spaces. It’s a holistic movement towards decluttering and organizing our lives, both …
The 2024 Resolution Revolution: Clean Up Your Own Mess! Read More »
In a world dominated by digital solutions to all of life’s issues, there are bound to be moments when we feel like connections become impersonal. Think about swiping during online dating to find “the perfect match.” You get me. It’s obvious then that we (or some of us) would take advantage of these impersonal connections …
How Workplace vs. Dating Ghosting Presents Real-World Issues Read More »
They say love makes the world go around. At the core of our being, we all desire to love and be loved in return. Everybody needs love in order to feel fulfilled and happy. If you have been reading my blog series on the stages of a relationship, you have learned that once you get …
You know what they say about butterflies, they’re not what they use to be. Ha! And they’re right! Butterflies don’t start out as the colorful, beautiful flying insects they are. In fact, they start out as small, caterpillar-like creatures and they transform over time through four different stages during their lifetime: egg, larva, pupa, and …
Metamorphosis Stage: Becoming a Couple (Stage 4 of 5) Read More »
Today’s hyper-individualistic, highly mobile society has made it difficult for people to build lasting relationships. And social media and online dating have made friendship – something that for centuries has been regarded as a key to personal fulfillment – more superficial and rare. But you and your person have managed to build a friendship, created …
Technology is an important part of society today, and it has a lot of benefits. But as you know, good and bad things can happen as a result of too much technology. It affects people’s lives on a daily basis. And in the age of swipe right or swipe left, getting get back to the …
You Got Past The Initial Meeting & Attraction Stage, Now What? (Stage 2 of 5) Read More »
“NEW YEAR NEW ME”…IS LAME I’m sure you’ve all heard the overused cliché of “new year…new you, ” especially on our motivated meme-filled screens. We should start taking this white-noise of a phrase and turn it on its head. It should instead be “You+” meaning you’re an extension of who you were or daresay an …
Mindset Over Goals: A New Outlook For 2022 and Beyond Read More »
BREAKUP RECOVERY Breakup recovery is so needed especially when moving on from the cluster that was 2020. When you hear the word “toxic”, what’s the first thing that pops into your mind? An object? A person? Or perhaps Poison Ivy? I really should slow down on quick comic books references, you know? If you’re new to …
Never before have we communicated so often online. Life has become a constant switch between screens as we move about our days in quarantine. Our inboxes are as full as our schedules, and our existences rely on staying in touch both professionally and personally. In the current circumstances, singles are relying even more on digital …
LinkedIn, Facebook, and Instagram: The Trifecta of Social Media Dating Read More »
The Initial Journey After the initial infatuation subsides, normalized behavior may lead to feelings of feeling “stuffed”. This is when attachment issues in dating arise. The self-sabotaging also involves assuming the other partner will not accept them at their lowest energy or that they will soon grow tired of them. This is where it’s important …
Top 4 Questions To Prove You Are Ready for an Attachment Read More »
When it comes to the matters of the heart, it’s important to realize that we are not attracted to the people we’re interested in just because of their looks, educational level, financial stability and other socio-economic parameters. A lot of other subtle and salient factors not only come in to play but also work in …
